Someone asked me (on Guys Ask Gals, not in real life) what the difference is between a friend with benefits (FWB) and a fuckbuddy (FB). I've never had any difficulty distinguishing the two. On our first date, you're a Friend With Benefits. You can kiss me, grope me, and get your cock out. I'll give you release by hand. After a while you can get your cock out and take my panties off, and what happens after that qualifies you as a Fuckbuddy. A Fuckbuddy gets fucked. A friend with benefits doesn't. That's the difference, I think.
For the last few weeks I have been sending my husband to the spare room and seeing a gorgeous young Black man who likes being halfway between a FWB and a FB. He is my Blue Balls Buddy. It quite turns me on to see him arriving at our house and look at his crotch, even while it is still covered by his clothing. My heart skips a beat just thinking about how much his Balls are going to hurt. I let him get his cock out, I drop my panties, he can put it inside and move it around a bit, but after that I make him pull it out. I say "Out," and if he doesn't take it out, I will, and I'll squeeze his balls so hard that he remembers next time. He does not release his milk into me. I'd smash his balls with the back of a hairbrush if he did.
After that I have the intense pleasure -- and I really love this -- of watching blue balls set in. He describes the pain as intense, burning, throbbing, a real ache in the balls. I have to masturbate as he describes the pain. Those burning balls actually turn a shade of blue.
He's been my Blue Balls Buddy since the middle of June, I've given him sore balls about twenty times, and I think he really enjoys being made to suffer. He is my gorgeous Black Blue Balls Buddy and I am really falling deeply in love with him and his sore, burning Blue Balls.
