wife help

are there any wives that can help me with getting my wife to start in the lifestyle?  I really want her to do other men and have achance to be with a BBC but she is very shy and conservitive. Thanks to all of you in advance for helping me.

Google Sarah Jameson's "Be Careful What You Wish For" - very real, down to earth guidance for the lifestyle.  Very helpful to me and my wife.

Pantyboy 

really very informative...thanks for information

Start slow in the bedroom as a fantasy then slowly make  it her fantasy.  Dirty talk while in the act then get her to tell you then introduce porn migrate to interratial porn buy some toys bigger than you and use them while you tounge her keep upping the dirty talk and fantasy while you introduce each new thing.  When you think the time is right take her out to a very nice dinner have a couple of drinks then tell her you wnat to talk openly and frnakly about your feeling.  Make sure she understands that you will remain faithful and loving and do not have an interest in other women.

I'll just echo what's already been said. TAKE IT SLOW AND COMMUNICATE!!!

Communication is HUGE!! Communication is key in any successful relationship be it personal or professional, intimate or platonic. Yalk about both of your fantasies. I'm sure she has her own as well.

My wife is also shy. It takes her a while to get comfortable around new people so the odds of a NSA with a stranger is slim. We won't be going to pick up a random guy at a bar anytime soon. But if we meet someone and she gets comfortable enough...who knows what could happen.