Haters

Why do so many guys consider youa freak/sissy for wanting your wife to be totally satisfied.  I am no small guy, I have an 8 1/2 inch cock that makes my wife very happy, but I could always tell there was something she was missing.  The first time we had a threesome, I saw her fucking another guy and was soooo turned on by watching her orgasm.  She came so hard, I knew i found what she wanted.  We set up another group encounter and I got inches from her pussy as she was getting fucked.... I could smell her excitement.  I couldn't take it anymore, I leaned in and licked her with a pussy full of strange cock.  She was so excited that she came ans squirted all over my face.  I got to watch her lovers cock pulse as he filled her pussy full of cum.  She came about 8 times that night.  Since then, our sex life has always included a third party only because I love to see her so satisfied.  I am afraid to tell anyone for fear of being called names when I only want my wife happy.  How can I explain myself without causing everyone to shun me?