Well while I have stopped looking for a Black Bull for my women, I have figured out a couple things, well not really figured them out but observed them and figured they are to confusing to try to understand. That, I fear, is how it always is when male and female try to communicate on things dealing with sex that is new to one or the other. Any way, in watching her reaction to e-mail communication with possible men, I noticed two things. She like to say she is not interested in any of them while showing signs of being totally turn on by one are two. The two that got her hot, one was 23 and one was late 30's.
One was absolutely a gentlemen and very much into the roamnce and pmapering she craves. THe other was very aggressive and very clear she is nothign but a fuck toy and will be uesed and shared.
Odd how the extremes got her hot. THe upside I had great sex, the down is she is still burned by the action of three are four men and is not wil ing to jump in yet.