by Anitra
After having a very disappointing week with men…no shows, half shows, shows that should NOT have shown, I was having a conversation with a very astute 22 year old. Telling him of my rule of not dating men under 35. I had broken my rule once this week, and was very disappointed. I was not making that mistake again. And not just because of the age number thing, but I feel experience is far and foremost the main component of sex. At least to do me right. This very intelligent man asked me something no one under 35 had ever asked me before; “well, how DO you like to be done?” Wow. Someone under 35 who really was interested on what pleases me. What turns me on. What can get me to clinching the bedspread screaming their name. I had never spelled it out step by step to anyone before, but I thought Why Not? This is my opportunity to educate. And lay all my kinky expectations out in the open. So I proceed to list—step by step—how I like to be done. This is what I told him…
Sex is 98.5% mental…and I’m into major mental stimulation…capture my mind and my body will follow…lets see if you can wrap your mind around this: I seek a man who is dominate...mentally and physically...don’t get me wrong, not who will beat me bloody, but who has a firm hand...who will keep me in line. This is just sexually now, outside of the bedroom—in the boardroom—I am in charge. For me a session should take 3-4 hours...and I’m not talking just fucking.
You should be able to give me an orgasm without any sexual part of your body touching mine...your mind needs to be in a place that when you speak, I react instinctively. For instance: You come through the door and tell me "get on your knees and suck my dick" just those eight words if spoken right and firmly, should have me on my knees no questions asked...THAT cannot be taught... that is an ingrained personality trait. I seek slow soft sucking---not rough fast biting...I seek long slow stroking---not fast hard power drilling...but he always reminds me he is in charge. And when we are done, that same person is gentle enough to hold me in his arms, give me sweet kisses, and run my bathwater...
This would have been enough for anybody, but this guy wanted to know more. In detail. So I laid it out for him.
1) I like--as you know---the domninate things...tell me to get on my knees and suck your dick, and I will have your dick hitting the back of my throat before you get the word "dick" out your mouth....
2) I like you to ram my head on your dick and face fuck me...until you explode in my mouth...and don’t pull away---I want to swallow every drop....
3) I like to be titty fucked. As you are pinching my nipples gently and fucking my tits, I will have my mouth open to suck your head on the upstroke...
4) I like my pussy eaten...not just licked, but savored...at least till I have 2 orgasms in your mouth...and if it feels good, stick with that spot...don’t go changing up as I’m about to cum...must have your pussy eating skills on point...
NOTE: I must pause to say something about pussy eating. Everyone claims they are champions in eating pussy, but let me tell u a secret: eating pussy is not a universal thing. Can’t buy it in a bottle. Each woman is different and her likes differ too. The real "champs" do not claim ......they just see what you like, listen to your body, and put it down…
5) I like to be spanked. Not as your fucking me (so annoying!) but put me over your knee and just spank my ass till it turns pink, and your dick is hard....no rush...we got plenty of time....this is where your self control kicks in...as you are watching my ass imagining what u want to do to it and feeling your dick get rock hard...you fight the urge to turn me over and fuck me....
6) I seek slow long strokes when you finally give me the dick...not rabbit fucks...not trying to drill for oil in china...just slow...long...take-the-dick-out-the-pussy-while-leaving -the-tip-of-the-head-in--fucking....
7) whatever you do...please...have some self control....you aren’t finished with me yet...so don’t cum no matter how good it feels...if you have to stop...pull out...count to 10---whatever---DO IT...
8) Before you cum...Turn me ova (if on my back), get some lube...and gently put your dick in my ass....
9) all the while talking to me....soothing me....telling me you "got this".... and just like my pussy...fuck my ass slow....I am a squirter (more of a gusher) and I guarantee if pussy and ass fucked right, I will gush gallons...
10) if you don’t wish to cum in my ass, by all means turn me ova and cum anywhere u like while looking deep in my eye--letting me know you are the man who just rocked my world... pussy, face, tits, mouth...anywhere cause you earned it.
So that is how to do me…step-by-fucking-step. But this is for me. Not for every woman. I encourage woman out there to sit down and really think about what gives them pleasure. No matter how mundane or kinky. After all, they won’t know unless ya tell them.
Sex is 98.5% mental…and I’m into major mental stimulation…capture my mind and my body will follow…lets see if you can wrap your mind around this: I seek a man who is dominate...mentally and physically...don’t get me wrong, not who will beat me bloody, but who has a firm hand...who will keep me in line. This is just sexually now, outside of the bedroom—in the boardroom—I am in charge. For me a session should take 3-4 hours...and I’m not talking just fucking.
You should be able to give me an orgasm without any sexual part of your body touching mine...your mind needs to be in a place that when you speak, I react instinctively. For instance: You come through the door and tell me "get on your knees and suck my dick" just those eight words if spoken right and firmly, should have me on my knees no questions asked...THAT cannot be taught... that is an ingrained personality trait. I seek slow soft sucking---not rough fast biting...I seek long slow stroking---not fast hard power drilling...but he always reminds me he is in charge. And when we are done, that same person is gentle enough to hold me in his arms, give me sweet kisses, and run my bathwater...
This would have been enough for anybody, but this guy wanted to know more. In detail. So I laid it out for him.
1) I like--as you know---the domninate things...tell me to get on my knees and suck your dick, and I will have your dick hitting the back of my throat before you get the word "dick" out your mouth....
2) I like you to ram my head on your dick and face fuck me...until you explode in my mouth...and don’t pull away---I want to swallow every drop....
3) I like to be titty fucked. As you are pinching my nipples gently and fucking my tits, I will have my mouth open to suck your head on the upstroke...
4) I like my pussy eaten...not just licked, but savored...at least till I have 2 orgasms in your mouth...and if it feels good, stick with that spot...don’t go changing up as I’m about to cum...must have your pussy eating skills on point...
NOTE: I must pause to say something about pussy eating. Everyone claims they are champions in eating pussy, but let me tell u a secret: eating pussy is not a universal thing. Can’t buy it in a bottle. Each woman is different and her likes differ too. The real "champs" do not claim ......they just see what you like, listen to your body, and put it down…
5) I like to be spanked. Not as your fucking me (so annoying!) but put me over your knee and just spank my ass till it turns pink, and your dick is hard....no rush...we got plenty of time....this is where your self control kicks in...as you are watching my ass imagining what u want to do to it and feeling your dick get rock hard...you fight the urge to turn me over and fuck me....
6) I seek slow long strokes when you finally give me the dick...not rabbit fucks...not trying to drill for oil in china...just slow...long...take-the-dick-out-the-pussy-while-leaving -the-tip-of-the-head-in--fucking....
7) whatever you do...please...have some self control....you aren’t finished with me yet...so don’t cum no matter how good it feels...if you have to stop...pull out...count to 10---whatever---DO IT...
8) Before you cum...Turn me ova (if on my back), get some lube...and gently put your dick in my ass....
9) all the while talking to me....soothing me....telling me you "got this".... and just like my pussy...fuck my ass slow....I am a squirter (more of a gusher) and I guarantee if pussy and ass fucked right, I will gush gallons...
10) if you don’t wish to cum in my ass, by all means turn me ova and cum anywhere u like while looking deep in my eye--letting me know you are the man who just rocked my world... pussy, face, tits, mouth...anywhere cause you earned it.
So that is how to do me…step-by-fucking-step. But this is for me. Not for every woman. I encourage woman out there to sit down and really think about what gives them pleasure. No matter how mundane or kinky. After all, they won’t know unless ya tell them.
Max