A boyfriend/girlfriend getting started – Some Ideas

The idea of an “old” married couple getting into cucking and BBC is understandable as the “vanilla” sex has dimmed and they look for something new and exciting.  Well maybe not understandable to everyone but certainly to anyone who visits this site.

So when I read about a young couple, either at the boyfriend/girlfriend stage or being engaged, the idea of cucking has another element of excitement, at least I think so. One couple now married were boyfriend/girlfriend, she slept around, with his knowledge. Then he asks her to marry him and she agreed with the understanding that she would continue to bed other men.   So while she was engaged she did so and it continues into their marriage.

 The idea of a young beautiful bride standing at the alter in front of family and friends with bride and groom knowing she has had BBC inside of her maybe just an hour previous to the ceremony is definitely erotic.  Maybe not to everyone reading this as it is a bit “over the top:.   And not everyone into cucking and BBC would take that route and there are as many paths as there are couples engaging in this lifestyle.

But let me start back at the beginning as it might develop. The possibility of such a lifestyle probably starts as a fantasy for the boyfriend.  Then maybe as pillow talk the topic of old boyfriends’ surfaces.  I would think it to be a promising sign if she would enjoy reminiscing.  And then if you, the boyfriend, are brave you ask her about how well they fucked her, the size of the cocks, if they did anything special she really enjoyed, did she did oral on them, where they heavy cummers, etc. Not all these topics in one evening unless you have an exceptional woman on your hands. But a little bit each evening.  You know the drill nice and slow.  Am I right to any woman that might be reading this?  I am not any sort of expert on this as my wife and didn’t follow the cuckold path as much as we might have.

Back to the pillow talk about old boyfriends.  If the pillow talk occurs while you have your cock embedded in her and she gets excited as she relates her past experiences, I would say you are on the way. And if you get excited then she knows it is turn on for you both. Now that is a really good start. And to encourage her perhaps consider you might need to do a little play acting so it will be obvious to her that what she is saying is exciting you - Giving her the green light to continue.

I read of one situation where the couple would pretend that the old boyfriend was the one fucking her. And that it is not uncommon for an old boyfriend to become a lover for a cuckold couple.  

Now this is all great, but it is during the height of passion in bed late at night.  The next day however might be different - Meaning if the topic is brought up during the light of day, she might not want to talk about it and may also have some guilt feelings about what happened the previous night.  The light of the next day is also to test yourself as if this is something you want to be doing. Maybe this should all be fantasy for the bedroom. But as days go into months, maybe it surfaces in the bedroom again and just maybe it surfaces the next day.  How would you feel if then next day she says out of the blue, “That was a pretty wild conversation we had last night.”  How would that not make your cock hard. I would say you just past first base and were heading to second.

So you are out at a night spot or maybe just shopping and she spots a good looking guy.  Or maybe you do. (Do you have the nerve to point him out to her?)  I am not sure how the mechanics of having her notice other men would flow but it would be moving in the right direction.  If she would ever tell you, “I have no interest in other men.”, this might take a while, but what woman does like to look at a good looking man. Maybe you need to take her to a construction site.  (Just kidding.)

Now I am thinking about how she might dress when you are out.  Not slutty (that is for later) but a bit sexy.  During the warm month’s shorts, tight tops, exposed tummy, nice makeup, etc. During the evening maybe short dress/skirt, low cut tops.  You might have to buy something that she might not normally want to wear but to please you, she might have to since you spent your hard earned money. If she is a natural flirt or a bit of an exhibitionist, you can skip to the next paragraph. Oh yes, Halloween seems to be an excuse for a woman to dress a bit slutty. And then off to some sort of party where will be men and .... Keep her glass filled and let the guys ogle the goodies. As a minimum it should do her ego good. You might even let her on her own and watch from a distance and enjoy whatever kind of show might be happening with her. Just stand so your excited state is not noticeable. If things move along faster than I would expect and she returns to you and finds you are hard, you have tipped your hand - That you get sexually excited when she is with other men. This entire script is a bit idealized but it could happen.  At least I like to write it this way.

More later.