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Start slow in the bedroom as a fantasy then slowly make  it her fantasy.  Dirty talk while in the act then get her to tell you then introduce porn migrate to interratial porn buy some toys bigger than you and use them while you tounge her keep upping the dirty talk and fantasy while you introduce each new thing.  When you think the time is right take her out to a very nice dinner have a couple of drinks then tell her you wnat to talk openly and frnakly about your feeling.  Make sure she understands that you will remain faithful and loving and do not have an interest in other women.