Small

mine is about 5" hard, 2.5" soft.  my current wife has said she can "feel it better" if its 100% hard, and i have gotten the "is it in yet?" from her. 

my past gf cucked me and had a bf with 11" (black).  she used to comment that I had a "fag dick" and would tell her baby ... in front of me that he had a bigger cock than mine.  she did tell me once that i was good (sexually) but that her other bf was big, and she needed that sometimes.

i also dated another girl long ago who told me my dick was too small for her pussy.